Hi Chi_townPhilly, (Do you have a shorter name, or is it customary to address members in this way?),
Thank you very much for your help. This is exactly kind of educated view I was looking for (mainly because it is something I have suspected for many years and have always wanted to engage in a discussion about it with someone who "knows their subject" which you obviously do!).
Of course, I would never deny the possibility that there is good music out there completely lacking in melody; it is just my personal experience that melody is an essential ingredient of the type of music that I like, and I was deliberately setting out to provoke a lively discussion.
I often get the feeling that I hear music which has no melody in a parallel way to the way I see paintings in which I can see no meaning i.e. abstract art. Often I am actually offended by both.
I suppose I should explain my view of good melody in any form of music as appealing to my emotions deeply. I think that the 3rd movement Adagio in Rachmaninov's 2nd Symphony is possibly the most moving and deeply emotional piece of music I know, and the whole symphony is my favourite. This is the kind of experience I look for in classical music.
I think that you were absolutely correct when you said "Of course, I know I just said more about myself than I said about music". Everything I have said so far is more about me; in fact I think that music depends on personal taste so much that one cannot express a view without giving a reflection of oneself.
Just a little more about me, in terms of classical music, I love Rachmaninov, Wagner, Chopin, Tchaikovsky, Elgar, Grieg, Puccini, and much of Beethoven, Mozart, Handel, Schumann and JS Bach. These are the composers I listen to most. I hope that Wagner is one of your "er" beloveds"? Possibly Weber? I like some of Weber, and many, many more "melodic music" composers, including a couple of Americans!
I will explore Bruckner in much more depth now, thanks to your recommendation.
Thanks again for your time and interest in my musical fumbling. I hope to hear from you again; pity we're not nearer, I would love to dicuss all this face to face over a couple of glasses of Scotch, with or without the "rocks"!
Best regards,
Eric.